This chapter is going to be one of the most in-depth chapters that you will ever read for a dating book. I will cover all the elements needed for attracting, picking up, and dating the most beautiful women.
Make sure that you follow the steps down to the T.
Here is what will be covered:
- Your House
- Necessary Items
- Working Out
- Body Hair
If you want to pick up hot women and bring them back to your place, you need to take care of something’s first.
Take out your trash.
This may seem like an obvious thing to do, but guys forget to do it. No girl is going to get turned on if she comes back to your place, and it smells like take-out Chinese food from the night before. So make sure that you take out all of your trash.
Do your dishes.
Another obvious, not often done task.
Before you go out, make sure that your sink is empty, clean, and spotless. A girl will not feel comfortable if your place is dirty and unclean.
Make sure to have ice cream (both chocolate and vanilla) in the fridge and snacks, such as chips and crackers in your cabinets. Nothing will ruin a mood faster than an empty stomach at the end of the night when she is back at your place.
Remember when a girl comes back to your place, she is expecting it to be very good. After all, she is expecting you to be the man that could turn out to be her future boyfriend or husband.
No one really likes a messy person, so make your bed before you go out.
Your bed is the place where the girl is going to lay on if you get that far, so that is the last places you want to cock block you after all the hard work that you have put in.
Make sure that your sheets, pillows, and blankets are all washed.
Have a nice air freshener for each of your rooms.
Make sure that the bathroom smells good, have an air freshener in there as well.
Clean your bathroom, flush your toilet, and do whatever it takes for your house to be warm and cozy.
Also for your car, get an air freshener as well.
You want to be the man that stands out. Many guys do not do this, and that is one reason they are not successful when it comes down to it.
Being clean and neat is an important factor when picking up beautiful women.
The following are necessary items that you should have at all times:
- Gum or Mints
- Hand sanitizer
- Chap stick
- Necklace or Bracelet
Make sure that you brush your teeth before you go out. You should be brushing your teeth three times each day. Use some teeth whitening products, such as Arm & Hammer Dental Care, Rembrandt toothpaste (the red box ONLY), or any other product. Make sure that you review the product first and read what others say about it because some work and others do not.
The reason that I recommend the Rembrandt red box ONLY is because the green one and the others have chemicals that hurt your mouth.
Another option for whitening your teeth are the whitening strips available at stores, such as Walgreens.
Speaking of teeth, if yours are crooked, get invisible braces. It is an important investment because it will build your confidence, and it will make beautiful women more attracted to you.
Make sure that you chew gum before you talk to beautiful women. The best gum to chew is the ones that also help with teeth whitening and have a minty flavor. As an alternative you can also have some strong breath mints in your pocket.
No one wants to speak to a person whose mouth smells like horse shit.
Of course, do not substitute gum for brushing your teeth. Both should be done. Brushing teeth first followed by gum chewing.
If you slack off and you wonder why you do not pick up beautiful women, you have your answer.
Use hand sanitizer and have a small one available. Women like clean hands, so if you go use a toilet, wash your hands.
Keeping up with correct hygiene is important. It is good for your health as well as hers.
It is good to have 2-3 tissues in your pocket at all times because you may need it for various reasons. If you do not have one, make sure that you get one. Last thing you want to do is sneeze on your sleeve and get mucous all over it.
It is good to be prepared, and once you start to do this, you’ll notice that your mentality changes because you are stepping up your game.
Chap sticks are important because no girl wants to kiss a guy with cracked lips. Always chap your lips, so that they look kissable. Think about it for a second, if a girl’s lips were as dry as an elephant’s nut sack, would you want to kiss her?
Chap your lips.
Condoms are needed.
This does not need an explanation, but for those that need one, here it is:
Be prepared for the situation if it arises where the girl wants to come back with you.
If you tell her that you do not have a condom, guess what? You just cock blocked yourself.
The best condoms to have are the ones that are safe and well known.
Stay away from sketchy condom brands.
Some good ones are Trojan and Skyn.
It really will come down to how you are in bed, which will be discussed in the upcoming chapters.
If your sex game is sub-poor, she is out of the door.
Mini-colognes are VERY important.
What is mini-cologne?
They are those small sample colognes handed out at stores.
Go and get a bunch of different ones, and test them out.
The best mini-colognes to have are the manly ones, such as L’Homme Yves Saint Laurent or Tom Ford. Beautiful girls like these types of smells.
You have to find the right one for you. Some other good cologne brands are the original Dolce and Gabbana, Dolce and Gabbana Light Blue, Hugo Boss, Cool Water, Adidas Moves, Mont Blanc Legend, Nautica Voyage, Express Reserve, 1 Million by Paco Rabanne, Vince Camuto, Tom Ford, Fierce by Abercrombie, Hollister California (Blue Bottle), and Burberry Brit.
My personal favorites are Express Reserve, L’Homme Yves Saint Laurent, Burberry Brit, and 1 Million by Paco Rabanne.
You should have three colognes to alternate between. You do not want to always smell the same.
The reason that mini-cologne is recommended is because you can bring it into the club with you, so that you can spray yourself in the bathroom.
Whereas other guys’ colognes are wearing off, yours takes over. Apply 2 sprays: one to your wrist and rub it with your other wrist and the second spray to your neck, which you again rub with your wrists, followed by rubbing it on your chin and under the ears.
When a girl asks you “what is that cologne?”
You can reply, “I can’t tell you because then you tell the whole world, and we can’t have everyone smelling irresistible like me, now can we?”
This type of attitude is playful and fun. The woman will not only like the fact that you smell good, but also that you have a cocky and funny attitude.
The timing of the cologne spray is important.
Do not spray cologne right after you shower because it will wear off fast and it will not have a natural smell. You should put on the cologne right before you step into the club or in the bathroom of the club with the mini-cologne.
You want to stand out in every shape and form; in a good way.
Every man needs a watch.
My personal favorite is a two-tone gold and silver watch, such as Michael Kors and Fossil.
Other good watch brands are Breitling, Guess, and Swiss Army. You can wear a nice silver watch as well, but make sure that the watch is circular / square and has a black interior, so that it is noticeable. The watch has to be a bit loose, so that it slides on your hand, this makes it noticeable when you are telling a beautiful woman a story and moving your hands when describing a scene.
Here’s a Fossil watch that I wear when I want to look bad ass:
Stay away from Rolex even if you can afford it.
No one cares about Rolex, and if you are wearing the real thing, people will still think that it is not.
Remember, you have to stand out.
Having a watch is important.
It is an accessory that makes you a man.
No beautiful woman wants to see a guy pull out his phone to view the time, which is past lame.
It is also good to wear a necklace because it also helps to make you stand out.
Do not get cheap $2 necklaces because it will do more harm than good.
If you want to stand out, it must be done properly.
So if you buy a necklace, be ready to spend a few hundred or more dollars on it.
The best necklace to buy is gold because silver looks too cheap.
Also if you wear earrings, the same rule applies:
Do not go cheap.
However for earrings, you want to go small and silver.
The smaller the earring, the more expensive it will look.
On your right hand, you can also wear a nice chunky silver bracelet.
The guideline for a nice and chunky silver bracelet is this:
It has to be proportionate to your body weight, so that you do not look goofy. So do not get a bracelet that is too large or too small. Make sure that it fits and slides only a little bit on your arm when you are wearing it.
I would suggest that you either go with a necklace or a bracelet. I do not recommend wearing both because then you are trying to look too ghetto fabulous.
I do not care if you do not smoke; however, you DO need to have a nice lighter on you at all times when you are trying to pick up a chick. The reason is because some women do smoke, so you want to have a lighter readily available to light it for them. If they ask you why you do not smoke, say that you are trying to quit. By having a lighter available and lighting up her cigarette for her, you can engage her with a good conversation AND it will show that you are classy.
Do NOT be that guy who tries to lecture her about how smoking is not healthy and that she should quit. No one wants to hear that shit. You are not her father.
If your hair looks bad, you will look bad.
Go to your local barber who does fades and knows how to do line ups.
Avoid haircutter chains, which will do no good for you.
Your hair needs to say, “STYLE”, and you got to stand out in a good way.
When it comes to your hair, do not go crazy and make weird symbols, no one cares.
When you get a haircut, you should either go with the “High n Tight” style or a little bit longer, so that you can rock the 5 o’clock shadow.
Here’s what a “High n Tight” looks like:
Beautiful women like that look because it is clean, neat, and attractive. It helps with the rest of your outfit and style because it fits in.
However, if you were to rock a long and dirty hair look, girls will get turned off.
So you have to find the right hairstyle.
It will take some time and practice. It is a good reason to never go super short with a haircut in case it does look bad. This gives your hair only a short period of time before it grows back, so you can test out other looks.
Your haircut should be cut in such a way, so that you can get a new one each month.
Your haircut should cost $20 to $40 along with 20% tip, if you go to the right barbershop. Typically, the good ones are in the city. Do NOT go cheap when it comes to your hair.
Here are some pictures of the 5 o’clock shadow that beautiful women like:
Women like these types of facial hairs.
Of course, The Wolf looks sick when he is ready to go out (picture with sunglasses).
What you do with your hairstyle and facial hair has to be neat, trimmed, and clean. Do not look like a donkey’s asshole.
There are two types of styles that beautiful women like:
- The Successful look for older men
- The Bad Boy
Older men ages 30 and over should have a successful style, which is geared more toward dress shirts, dress pants, and dress shoes.
The Bad Boy should focus more on the style with the stylish jeans, shoes, etc.
The key is to stand out from the other men.
Most guys do not know how to dress.
They simply wear a t-shirt, some jeans, and running sneakers, and expect to pick up beautiful women.
Remember that women take hours to get ready, so that they can look like this at the club:
Now do you think a beautiful woman that took an hour to get ready will want to talk to a guy that dresses like this?
If a woman puts in the time to get ready, so will you.
You want to look your very best when you go out, so make sure that all of the tips that have been mentioned so far are implemented.
Now time to discuss clothes.
Stay away from brand clothing that shows off the label, such as Ecko, FUBU, Sean John, Izod, Chaps, Ralph Lauren, Abercrombie, Hollister, etc.
It looks like you are showing off when you wear those, and it makes you blend in like everyone else.
Good clothes to wear to a club are Paul Smith, Armani, Billy Reid, Brooks Brothers, Burberry, 7 Diamonds, Vince, Jos A Bank, Jack Spade, Cavalli, Hugo Boss, etc.
You can also wear a nice black or a dark dress shirt with black dress pants and black dress shoes.
If you want, you can wear a tie, but it depends on the club scene or lounge that you are going to.
You want to dress to impress, but not in a bad way. Avoid striped shirts because it makes you look skinny or fat depending on your body size. There is no need for such clothes. Also make sure that your clothes are ironed because wearing wrinkly clothes will cock block you.
For example, if everyone is wearing a t-shirt at the bar, you will look bad if you are overdressed. However, that is no excuse not to follow the tips that I provide. It depends on the atmosphere of the bar, but you should always stand out in a good way.
For example, if it is an upper scale club, you may want to look like this:
When you order a drink, make sure that it is a mixed drink, so that it comes in a nice glass. This makes you look classy, and it is similar to what you will see women drinking as well, so it catches their attention. Do not mistake this with drinking like a girl.
Appearance is key.
Speaking of drinking, usually I limit myself to 3 drinks only for the whole night. So make sure that you pace yourself because the last thing you want is to get drunk and cock block your game. No woman is going to talk to you if you can’t even pronounce your words.
Also too much drinking can cause trouble with the club, police, and other people. So learn to control yourself.
Remember you are not out to drink, you are out to meet and pick up beautiful women.
If you want to drink and get drunk, buy a 24-pack of beer, and sit at home.
Other colors of clothing that you can wear are dark blue, dark brown, etc.
You do not want to stand out too much in a bad way because other guys will want to cock block you on purpose when they get jealous.
Your shoes should almost always be dress shoes and square toed, and make sure that you always wear a belt that matches your shoes’ color. You shoes should not have laces, so that they look classy.
Women will look at your shoes then your watch. Those two are the most important accessories.
Here are the rules to follow for clothing and style:
- Dress pants with Black Square toed shoes (picture shown above).
- If you wear jeans, good brands are True Religion Joey and Guess Falcons (stay away from the other ones like True Religion Billy, etc.).
- Also if you wear jeans, you can wear brown or white square toed shoes. A good brand is Aldo.
- Shoes should match the color of your belt.
- Always wear black socks.
- Do not wear a t-shirt under your dress shirt unless it is a black wife beater (looks pimp)
- Leave the top three buttons of your dress shirt open at the top.
- Do not tuck in your shirt unless it is a dress shirt that is meant to be tucked in.
- Your shirt should fit correctly, so that when you sit down, it is a little tight (not too much).
- Iron your clothes.
- Roll up your sleeves.
- The collars of your dress shirt should be big.
This is what The Wolf looks like:
I can pull off lighter colors, such as white, baby blue, lavender, peach, apple green, and even pink because I have mastered the tips and techniques. I would not suggest that you wear such colors until you are ready to do so. You need big balls for that.
Here are some of my favorite shirts; notice the styles. This means that the shirt is shiny and girls will want to touch you because their hands will slide right off. Simply put: It’s a fucking player’s dress shirt.
Your dress shirt should feel like silk when you touch it, or very close to it. Stay away from cheap shit because women can tell. Also make sure to always buy the clothes in person, so that you know they fit you well before you buy them. I stay away from online sellers.
Remember some of these things will take time to learn, but once you get it, you will be able to get ready within 10 minutes, and head out to pick up beautiful women.
You have to find the right clothing that fits your personality. You cannot simply wear exactly what others wear because they may not look good on you.
So finding the right style is important, you got to play around, but remember to wear dark colors in the beginning.
The doormen will not let you into some of the exclusive clubs if you stand out too much because they will get jealous that you are looking better than they do.
Once you get good at picking up beautiful women, you can show up to the exclusive clubs with a few gorgeous women by your arms, and get in without a hassle.
Remember to look good, feel good, and portray confidence.
During the day time, fall, or winter you can wear clothing, such as Hugo Boss or Calvin Klein t-shirts with a sports jacket over it.
A black dress shirt tucked out, sleeves rolled up, with a nice gray, silver, or cream sport jacket will look good for the fall or winter. You can wear a scarf if you want, but stay away from ear muffs and other odd looking clothing.
If you wear a leather jacket, make sure that it is real. Expect to spend $700 or more on it.
If you are going with the jeans look, you should wear black squared toed dress shoes, leather jacket, scarf, shirt, and black gloves. Or you can do the same but with brown square toed shoes purchased from Aldo.
Should you wear glasses or contacts? The answer is easy, look into the mirror.
You should be able to tell, which one makes you look better.
You want to either portray a successful or bad boy image, so choose wisely.
Your appearance and apparel are important, so make sure to find the right style that suits you.
If you are still having challenges finding the right look, send Pierre (image consultant) and I an e-mail and we will send you an invoice for our image consulting fee. This can be found toward the end of the book.
If you do not want to go to the gym for whatever reason, make sure that you invest some money and time into programs, such as P90x and Insanity.
If you do not like to work out for whatever reason, go for a walk at least three times a week. The walk should be half an hour long. This will help you physically and mentally because you will get oxygen to your brain.
You should also spend some time correcting your posture and stretching each day. Posture is the way that you stand, sit, and walk, so make sure that you correct it to portray confidence. You should stretch your muscles for ten minutes each day. Each muscle should be stretched for ten seconds.
This will help to make your body more defined and fit because it will make the muscles have a more natural look and feel to them.
I do not care what your excuse is, you need to maintain your health because it is important both to you and to the beautiful women that you want to pick up.
This means that you find a good diet program, workout plan, and take vitamins.
It is good to take Whey Protein when you work out along with Opti-Men Tablets. Also purchase some Omega 3’s, such as Fish or Flaxseed Oil.
Also add blueberries and salmon to your diet because they will help you to look healthier with a clean skin.
When you feel good, you will portray that as well to others around you.
You do not have to be in super good shape or jacked to pick up beautiful women, but it is VERY important to work out.
Workout plans change you biologically and mentally, so that you start to attract beautiful women much easier, so do take the time to invest in this.
Trim your finger nails, no one wants to see that dirty shit under them.
If you want to GAIN WEIGHT QUICKLY, eat many carbs before you go to sleep, but do not overdo this because you do not want to put on too much fat. You should make sure that you work out, so this way you can put on a lot of weight quickly, but with muscle as well. If you eat a Chef Boyardee right before you sleep, 5 times per week, you will put on about 6-8 lbs each and every month. However, do remember that 90% of this will be fat unless you are hitting the gym and doing some cardio which I recommend. You should get your ass on the elliptical because this will help you to maintain a fit level physique fast.
If you want to LOSE WEIGHT QUICKLY, you should eat two or three toasted bread with cheese in the morning, a chicken Caesar salad for lunch with no dressing, blueberries and peaches for snack, and some salmon and chicken breast for dinner. Only drink water for your thirst needs and a scoop of Whey protein with water once a day. You can find all the protein that you need on Bodybuilding.com. Follow this diet plan for 7 days, and you should lose about 3 to 5 lbs. If you follow this diet, make sure that you are consistent. Do not get lazy. Make sure that you take the vitamins I recommended each day.
For acne or acne scars, you can purchase the Dark Spot Corrector Serum and Pore Refining Solutions (Pore Serum & Pore Corrector) available at stores, such as Macy’s. You use these products twice daily for up to 3 months.
You should also purchase an oil free moisturizer with a SPF 20 to block sun rays from damaging your skin. You use the oil free moisturizer with the SPF 20 once per day for as long as you want to have smooth skin. This will ensure that your skin is healthy, clean, and smooth.
If you have hair loss, skin, teeth, etc. problems that need to be taken care of and are lowering your confidence, go see a doctor. If something is bothering you, man-up and do something about it. A doctor can help you solve your problems.
There is no excuse to sit there and do nothing.
This may seem obvious, but many guys do not follow through.
Your chest hair as well as the rest of your body should be trimmed.
You should have little to no public hair because women do not like this.
Make sure that you invest some money into buying Gold Bond. This will ensure that your balls do not smell bad, which is important if you ever want to be with a beautiful woman in bed.
Women will leave if you smell bad because poor hygiene is a BIG turn off, so make sure that you smell good everywhere. This means that you should buy a good deodorant, such as Old Spice. If you have sweating problems, go to the women’s section and buy the best deodorant available that they offer.
Gentleman, the women’s hygiene and body odor market is a billion dollar industry whereas not even a fraction of that is spent on the men’s industry for the same market. The reason is because women are pickier than men, so the companies invest millions of dollars to develop VERY GOOD products for women.
If you have a uni-brow, get rid of it. Your eyebrows should be symmetric and well aligned, but not so much that it starts to look obvious that you spend too much time in front of the mirror. Remember, you want to be a man, not a chick.
Trim your nose, ear, and chest hair.
Personally I like to shave it all, so that when it does start to grow back, it looks natural.
Invest in some Norelco products, which are well known for a manly body grooming kit.
Remember it is all worth it, when you have a beautiful woman, such as this one with you back at your place:
Picking up beautiful women is a skill-set that many guys lack. So you need to stand out. Think about how many guys take the time to ensure that their body hair is trimmed? Barely any, which is why you would stand out as the guy who takes care of himself, and women do notice that, and like that.
If you are too pale and look like you need a tan, then get one.
Stay away from tanning salons unless you want to develop cancer.
One good way to get a natural looking tan within minutes is with Fake Bake Flawless.
You can look for sunless tanning products also known as self-tanners to find other options as well. Make sure that you read reviews before you purchase the product.
You should also drink 1 glass of carrot juice or beet juice twice per week to maintain a natural tan.
Also stay away from sun tanning pills, yes they do exist, and they are dangerous.
It will take some time to find the right products, but it is worth it when you do.
Step Up Your Style Summary:
Of course, before words even come out of your mouth, a girl has analyzed your whole look completely. Looks are a lot less important to women, but if you don’t look like you TAKE CARE of yourself then they will think you’re a slob. It is more about the effort of taking care of yourself than being better looking than the next guy. It’s not about being good looking, it’s about looking good. That’s what beautiful women are looking for; a guy who has his shit together. You need to have everything on point to become The Wolf.
- Go shop around and be ready to spend some money.
- Ask the cute girls who work at the stores to help you (you can also practice conversation as well). One of the best things to ask a cute girl who works at a clothing store is “I’m going on a date with a beautiful woman, and it is my first in a while; I know it is embarrassing. What do you recommend I wear? I want to be on point.”
- Dress to Impress WHENEVER you are outside of your house. You never know when you may meet beautiful women.
- Your sex appeal increases by two points by spiking your hair with gel. It shows that you take care of yourself.
- Test a style in the field before you judge it.
In the next chapter, you will learn about the night scene and how to find the best establishments to visit to maximize your encounter with beautiful women. If you don’t know where the hot women are, you will not get with them.